The Sacred Remembrance of Self-Mastery: A Journey through Faith, Light, and Divine Flow
"Self-awareness is the key to self-mastery." — Gretchen Rubin
In the quiet sanctuary of being, where every breath met stillness, self-mastery had not been a conquest — it had been a sacred remembrance. It had not been about controlling the tides of life, but about resting in their rhythm, flowing in trust through the unseen current of God’s grace. In those moments, we had embodied health, generosity, humility, and sacred boundaries. We had radiated peace, light, loving-kindness, and compassion — reflections of divine presence already luminous within us.
For me, this journey had begun long before I had understood what mastery meant. I had been born in Vietnam in 1974, one year before the war ended in South Vietnam — a time marked by scarcity, yet the human spirit had already been luminous. My father had served as a navy soldier, and my mother, a military nurse. They had raised me with discipline and devotion — lessons I had once mistaken for strictness but had later recognized as sacred preparation.
Each dawn, before the first light had touched the sky, I had risen around 5 a.m. to help my mother prepare breakfast to sell. In those early hours, as the scent of rice and broth had filled the air, I had learned presence, service, humility, and silent prayer. Life, though simple, had already been teaching me about strength, perseverance, healthy boundaries, and the sacred art of generosity.
Those early experiences had become the foundation of my spiritual path. Through them, I had discovered that self-mastery began not with control, but with faith — the quiet faith that had allowed me to see every hardship as a divine teacher, every act of kindness as a ripple of light, and every breath as a miracle.
As the years had unfolded, faith had become my compass. It had carried me through the seasons of loss, widowhood, and physical pain — and through each, I had been called to rest, to surrender, to listen deeply. Self-mastery, I had realized, had not been about striving to perfect the self, but about returning home to the stillness of the soul — where grace, obedience, humility, and divine timing had met as one.
Walking in self-mastery had been co-creating with God — trusting that every challenge had already contained its blessing, that every delay had hidden divine orchestration, and that every ending had whispered of renewal. It had been the sacred art of remembering that peace had not been found in the absence of storms, but in resting with faith in the eye of them. In this sacred flow, we had extended compassion, spread light, and upheld loving-kindness in every act.
When we had embodied faith, self-mastery had ceased to be an achievement; it had become a prayer in motion. We had flowed in alignment with the Law of Resonance, radiating love, light, gratitude, generosity, and the quiet strength of boundaries — living reflections of God’s eternal grace.
And so, in the stillness of every breath, we had remembered:
We had already been whole.
We had already been light.
We had already been home — flowing with grace, rooted in faith, and resting in the eternal peace of divine remembrance.